Jilted 11 - To Stay or Go - The Choice You Still Get to Make

May 16, 2018

What happens to the spouse of the church leader who blows everything up? They suffer all the consequences but get little of the attention. What are they to do? Continuing his homily from I Peter 2-3, the Saintly Mule probes the options available to the forgotten spouse—Should they Stay or Go?


Jilted 10 - Rocks and Hard Places or When Trapped in Ministry

April 29, 2018

Too hurt to move; too hurt to stay. How do we respond when trapped in a situation we cannot control? What choice remains when we feel like we have no choice? The Holy Ass reflects on St. Peter’s unusual invitation to those trapped in grisly situations - Lean into it!


Jilted 9 - Hearing the Bullet or When You’re Waiting for Life to Fall Apart

March 25, 2018

Are you standing on the edge? Are you close to an addictive, depressive, or obsessive choice destroying your life? Don’t feel like you can stop it? St. Asinus offers a somber warning and a little advice to those who can hear the bullet coming.


Jilted 8 - Sorry, Not Sorry or When are Repentance and Forgiveness Real?

March 18, 2018

How do you know that someone has really repented? How do you know that someone has truly forgiven you? Which is supposed to happen first? What’s supposed to happen after? The Saintly Mule considers the meaning of repentance and forgiveness, what they really look like, and what it means to for victims and perpetrators to move toward reconciliation.


The Spirit of Life 07 - The Spirit of Sanctification

March 4, 2018

What is the Holy Spirit trying to accomplish in us? What is the Spirit’s agenda? Is it a great mystery or can it be clearly understood? God has a wonderful plan for your life, and the Saintly Ass is here to tell you what it is.


Jilted 7 - What about all those people I hurt? or Living with Guilt

February 25, 2018

How do you deal with the guilt of having hurt others? How do you go forward in life with that heavy weight sitting on your conscience? What can be done…what can’t? Does the gospel have anything to say to the person who feels crushing shame for pain they’ve caused in their past?


Jilted 6 -Who Speaks for Me? Or Why the Church Needs Advocates

February 18, 2018

When leaders make mistakes and their lives fall apart, who is charged with the task of walking with them, learning their story, and speaking on their behalf? Most broken leaders must represent themselves. And since "only a fool represents himself," the end is predictable and excessively tragic. Where are the advocates?


Jilted 5 - What Do Wrecked People Need from the Church?

February 11, 2018

What do people who’ve wrecked their lives really need from the Church? How can the Church really help? Some things are easily identified—financial help, counseling, family support. The single most important thing, however, may not be so obvious, but without it, it's almost impossible for a disgraced person to recover a livable life.  


Jilted 4 - #Metoo and the Culture of Discarded Leaders

February 5, 2018

#Metoo versus the Disposable Celebrity? How do we navigate the rights of the accuser to be heard and the rights of the accused to due process?  What does Christianity say to victims and perpetrators of evil, about redemption, restoration, reconciliation? How does the Church subvert the Culture of Discarded Leaders?


The Spirit of Life 06 - The Spirit Promised to the Church

January 28, 2018

Jesus promised a share of his own Spirit would come upon the Church. This edition of the Homilies of St. Asinus begins the transition from the work of the Holy Spirit in times past to the Spirit's work in the life of the Church and the Believer by considering Jesus' promises in the Upper Room discourse of John 13-17.